Dim literal = "<Data><ControlledObject><child1 name=""name1""/><child2 name=""name2""/></ControlledObject><ControlledObject><child1 name=""name1""/><child2 name=""name2""/></ControlledObject><Object><child1 name=""name1""/><child2 name=""name2""/></Object></Data>"
Dim xml = XDocument.Parse(literal)
Dim dataTag = xml.Element("Data")
dataTag.Elements("ControlledObject").Remove()